Refuse Ordinary means rejecting a lifeless and distant faith and embracing a real, radical and vibrant relationship with Jesus Christ. Join us as we Refuse Ordinary and pursue the powerful an extradordinary life that Jesus promises!
SEASON THREE
Experience vs. Truth
In this episode, we will be sitting in on a class called "Experience vs. Truth", taught by Lisa Bowers. In this class, Lisa teaches about how we as humans tend to filter Christianity through our experiences. Even in the New Testament, people saw Jesus through the filter of what they thought He should be. Let's run after Him, letting Him speak for who He is, and letting Him clear our filter so that we can walk with Him in truth!
We Are His Son
In this episode, we will be sitting in on a class called "We Are His Son", taught by Nathan Taylor. This teaching is about accepting the offer to become sons and daughters of God, not by changing our behavior, but by changing our whole identity. Will you accept the offer to live in the identity of a son or daughter of the King?
We Are His Servant
In this episode, we will be sitting in on a class called "We Are His Servant", taught by Ryan Kelly. This class teaches how being a servant of God isn't something we can take on and off as we please; it is who we are as Christians. Being a servant of God requires having our hearts engaged and connected to Him, letting Him live through us.
We Are His Bride
In this episode, we will be sitting in on a class called "We Are His Bride", taught by Lisa Kelly. This class is all about how Jesus describes a relationship with Him to be like a marriage. It's about a relationship where there is vulnerability, and both sides giving up everything for the other. Jesus chose us, and we need to decide what our response to that will be. Are you allowing Jesus close to your heart?
Healing Trauma
In this episode, we will be sitting in on a class called "Healing Trauma", taught by guest speaker, Pam Dyck. This class discusses the effects of trauma in our lives, both from the absence of good things or the presence of negative things in our lives. Pam talks about what it does to our physical bodies and how it will either result in fear or a lack of joy. She then goes on to lead prayers for healing the effects of trauma in our lives. This class goes deep, but it is so powerful.
Communication With Pharisees
In this episode, we will be sitting in on a class called "Communication With Pharisees", taught by Nathan Taylor. This class is about how Jesus' communication with the Pharisees, though often harsh, was actually loving them. They would come with their own agenda, focusing on something Jesus did that went against their traditions, while missing the big picture of what Jesus was doing and why He was there with them. Are there areas in our own lives that we are operating like the Pharisees did?
Perfectionism
In this episode, we will be sitting in on a class called "Perfectionism", taught by Lisa Kelly. This class is all about knowing what Jesus says the target really is and aiming for that. Our version of perfectionism doesn't always line up with Jesus' version, so we need to find out what He is saying. Is perfectionism leading us to love?
Barriers To The Prophetic
In this episode, we will be sitting in on a class called "Barriers To The Prophetic", taught by Johnny Bowers. This class discusses the obstacles that get in the way of using the giftings that God has given us, such as the gift of prophecy. If we hold onto and believe the lies the enemy tells us, we may miss out on how the Lord wants to use us. The goal is to be able to live in freedom, letting the Holy Spirit move through us, and not miss out on what God has for our life.
Hindrances To Receiving His Love
In this episode, we will be sitting in on a class called "Hindrances To Receiving His Love", taught by Chloe Wellsand. This class is all about letting God's love transform us and free us. In order to do so though, we need to pursue healing for the lies and hurts that we have lived with. We get to choose to let Him come closer, and we get to choose to figure out what is blocking us. The goal is to walk in freedom and in His plans and purpose for our life.
Being Led By The Holy Spirit
In this episode, we will be sitting in on a class called "Being Led By The Holy Spirit", taught by David Conner. This class discusses learning to hear the voice of the Holy Spirit as well as developing a relationship with Him in order to be led by Him. If you want to learn more about how to follow the leading of the Holy Spirit, you'll want to give this episode a listen!
Faith In Tough Circumstances
In this episode, we will be sitting in on a class called "Faith In Tough Circumstances", taught by Stefanie Mumby. In this class, Stefanie shares her journey of walking through losing her husband, while choosing to believe that God is good despite the immense loss. She shares the process of letting go of control, and saying to the Lord, "Your will be done". This teaching demonstrates the ability to walk through tough circumstances while continuing to choose that God is good.
Don't Give Up On The Promises
In this episode, we will be sitting in on a class called "Don't Give Up On God's Promises", taught by guest speaker, Pam Dyck. Sometimes we can get impatient, doubtful, or even complacent as we wait for God to fulfill His promises to us. But what is the correct way to live while waiting? What is the purpose in the waiting? Listen along as Pam gives incredible insight into the way God moves, and how we can be faithful as we trust His timing.
Falling In Love With Jesus
In this episode, we will be sitting in on a class called "Falling In Love With Jesus", taught by Vicki Orsillo. This class tackles the question "how do you stay in love with Jesus all the days of your life?" How do you keep your love from growing lukewarm? In this episode, Vicki introduces the idea of living a guilt free life, one where you both intend to not sin, and also forgive yourself for the times you mess up. If you want to live your life on fire for Jesus, listen to this class for tips and tools to do so!
Enduring To The End
In this episode, we will be sitting in on a class called "Enduring To The End", taught by Ryan Kelly. This class talks about the importance and meaning of enduring to the end, and how that affects your salvation. Ryan discusses how enduring in Christianity means to be planted and grounded in the truth and in Jesus. Though difficulties in life will come, will you be able to stand firm through them, knowing that there is a reward for those who endure?
Intend Not To Sin
In this episode, we will be sitting in on a class called "Intend Not To Sin", taught by Maria McWhorter. This class discusses what Jesus meant when He said "Go and sin no more" in the gospel of John. This phrase, and the intention to aim at obedience means we must know the standard that He has. We know He is serious about sin, since He sent His Son to die for our sin, so it is important to know what He expects and requires.
Jesus' Teaching On Authority
In this episode, we will be sitting in on a class called "Jesus' Teaching On Authority", taught by Nathan Taylor. In this lesson, Nathan discusses the authority Jesus walked in on earth, and looks at the source from which Jesus received that authority. Jesus put Himself under the authority of His Father and did just what He saw His Father doing. We also get a chance to walk in the authority that He gives, not for the purpose of exalting ourselves, but for the purpose of revealing His Kingdom. Listen in on this class to learn more about what Godly authority looks like!
The Death Process
In this episode, we will be sitting in on a class called "The Death Process", taught by Chloe Wellsand. This lesson looks at what it's like to let go of your life, your comforts, and your dreams, and lay them at the feet of Jesus. Though life may have taught us that it's safer to look out for ourselves, we have an opportunity to trust our Good Father to provide for us. And as we lay our lives down before Jesus, He is able to help us grow and flourish in the plan He has for us. Will you let go of your old life and let Jesus be the Lord of your life?
Living In The Reality Of Eternity
In this episode, we will be sitting in on a class called "Living In The Reality Of Eternity", taught by Lisa Kelly. This lesson challenges us to look at what we are investing in—present comforts or treasures in Heaven? When leading others, are we seeking to be liked and understood, or are we seeking to help them do whatever Jesus has called them to do? We have a challenge to fight against the urge to have quick and comfortable results in order to lead people to the One who can ultimately save them. Are you up for that challenge?
Jesus' Teaching On Heaven & Hell
"He's in charge of the journey, and I just have to follow what's in front of me."
In this episode, we will be sitting in on a class called "Jesus' Teaching On Heaven And Hell", taught by Nathan Taylor. This class tackles some really heavy questions such as, "How could a loving God send people to hell", and discusses beliefs that people have today about hell. Nathan Taylor brings up the reason for heaven and hell, and the passion God had in sending His Son to the cross so that none should perish. Because of the misconceptions of heaven and hell, people form beliefs about God, but as we look to really find Him, we will see His trustworthy, just, and loving character.
New Covenant Standard
Welcome to another episode of Refuse Ordinary: Season 3! This season, instead of our regular interview style episodes, we're joining in on one of the many classes taught to level 1-4 of the full time School of Transformation.
In this episode, we will be sitting in on a class called "New Covenant Standard", taught by Lisa Bowers. What is the standard Jesus came to show and teach us in the New Testament? More than a list of rules, the standard calls us deeper with Jesus in a relationship that stands through trials and points people to Jesus. It's a standard that causes us to work through false lenses and beliefs so that we can be connected with our Good Father for eternity. It's a standard that, if followed, shows Jesus to the world just by meeting us. Let's run after that standard—that beautiful, transforming, fulfilling standard that Jesus has set for us!
Friendship With God
Welcome to the first episode of Refuse Ordinary: Season 3! This season, instead of our regular interview style episodes, we're joining in on one of the many classes taught to level 1-4 of the full time School of Transformation.
In this first episode, we will be sitting in on a class called "Friendship With God", taught by Lisa Kelly. This class takes a look at what it means to have a real, tangible, relationship with the living God without filters getting in the way. Lisa Kelly discusses discerning the false religion in our lives or just knowing the "right answers", and finding out who God really is and what it's like to have a genuine, from the heart, relationship with Him.
Refuse Ordinary means rejecting a lifeless and distant faith and embracing a real, radical and vibrant relationship with Jesus Christ. Join us as we Refuse Ordinary and pursue the powerful an extradordinary life that Jesus promises!
SEASON TWO
A GRACE THAT CHANGES THINGS
Do you struggle with approaching Jesus? Do you feel like you have to be a certain way for Him to accept you?
In Episode 1, we are joined by School of Transformation student, Kevin Kornelsen, and one of the senior pastors of the Father's House Church, Vicki Orsillo. We go into Kevin's story of figuring out the answers to the above questions. We talk about identity and how Jesus loves us into a place of wanting to be with Him and do what brings Him joy. We also discuss the opportunity we have to make a choice—to choose to believe what Jesus says and does and let that change us. And to top it all off, we chat about what grace really means in our relationship with Jesus.
This episode is packed with perspective, truth, and real encounters with who Jesus is.
Build Your Confidence
"You know these gifts, they're not really for me."
In Episode 2 of Refuse Ordinary Season 2, Erica Slejko goes into detail of her journey with finding the confidence to use her giftings. Erica is joined by Ryan Kelly and they discuss what it takes to use the things they've been called to do—the work and dedication to learning. They talk about seperating identity from giftings, and not letting self-worth be wrapped up in performance.
Confidence, identity, and hard work—this episode is jam-packed with inspiration!
The Decision Moment
"What would the best response to Jesus be for all that He's doing for me?"
In Episode 3 of Refuse Ordinary Season 2, Blaine Sem tells the story of how he went from a church-going, family man to living in his car, addicted to drugs, and how a pursuit of Jesus from that place of desperation led to a complete transformation in his life.
Johnny Bowers joins him in this episode, sharing his own journey from a heavy metal band lifestyle to a pastor of the Father's House Church in the very town he grew up in.
They discuss finding trustworthy people to follow and how their journey isn't complete, that it's a continual journey of doing the next right thing.
The Call In Front Of You
"He's in charge of the journey, and I just have to follow what's in front of me."
In Episode 4 of Refuse Ordinary, Michelle Carr talks about the goals she had that were motivated by wealth and success, leaving her feeling unfulfilled, and how the Lord challenged her to trust Him and pursue His visions for her life. Her story involves surrender and learning to believe that Jesus has her best interest in mind.
Maria McWhorter joins Michelle on this episode, sharing her own experience with following God's will, which involved seeing the need in front of her and figuring out what she had to give, resulting in a journey she would not have expected.
A Purpose With Passion
In Episode 5 of Refuse Ordinary, Galen Reimer discusses the leap of faith he took in coming to the School of Transformation—leaving a successful career after struggling internally, and finding a new purpose in his giftings. He describes how there's been a shift from using his gifts for himself, to actually finding a passion to teach others what he knows.
Galen is joined by Lisa Kelly, who talks about the character refinement that has had to take place in her life as she learned to use her giftings to truly bless those around her.
It's a discussion of passion, joy, and fulfillment in using your giftings alongside the One who has given them.
Come Alive
"We want some big formula...but, see here's the secret, it's something simple, but it's, 'I just have to trust Jesus.'"
In our final episode of Refuse Ordinary, Season 2, Miruna Veenhuis shares her story of facing earth-shattering circumstances as a Christian and how it shook her faith, causing her to question what other Christians had that she didn't. She shares how coming to the the School of Transformation revealed to her a life where she knew that she was actually living out the words of Jesus, which in turn helped her find out who she was created to be.
Nathan Taylor joins the conversation, sharing how just doing what Jesus says to do actually helped him to come alive and lifted his confusion surrounding Christianity.
Take a listen to this truth-packed, encouraging look at finding a Christianity built on the words of Jesus.
SEASON ONE
THE TRUTH OF WHO YOU ARE
What defines you? When it comes to knowing who you are, who gets the final say? It may seem straightforward, but the truth is, it’s easy to get confused. We’re surrounded by a world where our circumstances, our society, and our experiences constantly try to define our identity. So where can you find the truth of who you are and who you were created to be? For Episode 1, we’re joined by Chloe Wellsand, graduate and teacher of The Father’s House School of Transformation to talk about the importance of letting Jesus tell us who we are.
A FAITH THAT MATTERS
Does your faith feel dry? Do you often wonder if you’re missing something or if there’s something more to life following Jesus? If that sounds like you, you’re not alone! So what does it take to replace that dry faith with one that’s fruitful and overflowing? We’re joined this week by Ryan Kelly, Worship Pastor at The Father’s House Church and the leader and graduate of the School of Transformation. Ryan shares how one simple perspective shift made all the difference for him, unlocking a whole new level of loving and serving Jesus.
BECOMING A MODERN-DAY DISCIPLE
Do you ever feel lonely or lost in your Christian walk? Do you wish you had someone to learn from and point you in the right direction? Christianity was meant to be done with others, following those who are going the right way, just as the disciples followed Jesus. In a culture where there’s a heavy emphasis on independence, Jesus calls us to follow. This is where discipleship comes in. We as Christians need the help and support of others in order to help us stick to the path that leads to Jesus. If our goal is to look more like Jesus, we need to be following someone whose goal every day is to look more like Jesus. Yet not everyone who claims to have a relationship with Jesus is someone who would be safe to follow. It is important to examine a person's fruit to see that they really are someone that you can learn from as you press on towards Jesus. It may not be easy, but it will be worth it.
LOVE: THE WAY IT WAS MEANT TO BE
How would you define love? Do you find this subject to be confusing, sometimes bringing up more questions than answers? These days it feels like everyone has their own definition of love, and some definitions of love seem to produce results that imply love was never really present. So instead of coming up with our own definition of love, maybe it's time we listen to Jesus' definition of love. Jesus loved with complete selflessness. He gave it all, from a genuine place, and changed people's lives no matter who they were. We need to let Jesus' definition of love become our definition of love and decide to partner with Him and love the one in front of us.
LIVED OUT NOT BURNED OUT
In a time where the focus seems to be on self-care and setting boundaries, what is our life with Jesus really supposed to look like? Does the idea of giving everything for Jesus sound daunting or burdensome? Giving your life away is about a response to Jesus and who He is in your life. A relationship with Jesus is not transactional. It is not about giving so that you can get something in return. Jesus already gave us the greatest gift, and we have the opportunity to respond to what He has given us. We actually get to partner with what Jesus is doing. All that He is is more than enough to fill us up as we respond to the calling on our lives to love those around us.
A VISION FOR YOUR LIFE
Do you feel stuck on seeing the vision for your life? Do you wonder what God is calling you to? Something that gets overlooked quite often is the importance of following another person's vision. Following another's vision can actually be following your vision as you allow God to use people and experiences to prepare you for what He has for you. When you feel stuck or have a hard time dreaming sometimes the best thing to do is to just take a step. What you may need is to get some momentum and let others come alongside you as you move forward. Sometimes instead of knowing the whole layout of the house, you'll have to just walk into the room right in front of you.